When Mats Steen was slightly boy, he cherished a small ceramic fox. In his native Norway, a fox is a “reven.”
His mom, Trude, says he carried in all places. Again then, he might nonetheless stroll on his personal.
He was 7 years previous when a wheelchair arrived at his home. His dad and mom anticipated he would want it quickly, as his muscular tissues weakened as a result of a uncommon situation, Duchenne muscular dystrophy. He hated the wheelchair, so it stayed within the hallway. Regardless that he was stumbling and falling, he didn’t wish to use it. Finally, he needed to.
As an grownup he was given a miniature fox as a birthday present, one thing that was pricey to him and that he noticed daily on his lounge shelf. When Mats handed away in 2014 on the age of 25, the Steens designed a headstone with a fox carving.
A digital model of that headstone seems in World of Warcraft (WoW), a massively multiplayer on-line sport (MMO) that was an enormous a part of their son’s final eight years of life. What they didn’t know till after he died was how massive of an influence he made on others whereas he was there.
The general public meets the non-public eye
Within the role-playing setting of World of Warcraft, Mats was often known as Ibelin, a sturdy and charming non-public investigator with a muscular physique and lengthy pink hair. His welcoming smile and delicate nature made him standard with different gamers.
When WoW created an in-game tribute to him, the Reven Pack, which might additionally increase funds for CureDuchenne, a corporation that helps analysis, early prognosis and entry to remedy, the sport’s producers selected a wily fox carrying a detective hat who could possibly be carried by gamers in his personal customized backpack.
In a little bit of kismet, the World of Warcraft artist who created the character, backpack and headstone for the fundraising collaboration can be named Mats and can be Norwegian. The fundraiser runs via Jan. 7, 10 a.m. PST*.
In January, “The Remarkable Life of Ibelin” premiered on the 2024 Sundance Movie Pageant, the place it received over audiences with the story of Mats and his life inside World of Warcraft, a legacy that surpasses the digital area.
Norwegian filmmaker Benjamin Ree learn a BBC article about Mats in 2019 and was impressed to hunt out the Steens and Mats’ buddies in WoW to make a movie about his story.
At Sundance, Ree’s documentary won the Directing and Viewers awards within the World Cinema/Documentary class, resulting in a streaming take care of Netflix. Subscribers have been in a position to start watching it in late October earlier than the tenth anniversary of Mats’ demise on Nov. 18. It’s additionally on the shortlist within the Documentary Function Movie class for the 97th Academy Awards (2025).
In honor of the influence Mats made in Norway, the nation created the Ibelin Award, which might be granted yearly beginning in autumn 2025 to an individual thought-about a task mannequin for players – somebody who takes care of others.
Making a distinction with out ever assembly in particular person
Mats’ avatar as a non-public investigator wasn’t fully fictional. He saved his wealthy gaming life and neighborhood non-public – so his influence was a shock even to his dad and mom.
“We knew that he was an excellent listener, however we had no respect for the digital gaming platform being an space the place you could possibly truly use this skill for something,” says Robert Steen, who served 4 years as Oslo’s vice mayor of finance and 4 years as vice mayor of well being.
He and his spouse even have an older daughter, Mia. “We have been very a lot traditional dad and mom born within the ‘60s and we tried to restrict the variety of hours they spent in entrance of the display screen. We had no concept about all these folks he had interacted with and helped in numerous methods.”
Robert recalled considered one of Mats’ buddies in World of Warcraft, Lisette (aka “Hearsay”), who can be outstanding within the movie.
“Her dad and mom thought they have been going to assist her by taking her laptop away,” he says. “However what they really did with out realizing it was to take her buddies away, which led to this very deep melancholy that might have gone improper if she didn’t have folks like Mats to be there for her and lead her via that course of.”
The movie reveals how Mats wrote Lisette’s dad and mom a letter to elucidate how vital being a part of their World of Warcraft neighborhood was, and that it was an actual neighborhood who met in actual life.
Mats, although, resisted these in-person conferences. He might nonetheless discuss at that stage of the illness, however he selected to not go on digital camera or take part in voice chats along with his many buddies within the sport. It took a very long time for him to disclose his situation to them, and when he did so, it was via a blog post.
His dad and mom used that very same weblog to inform his on-line buddies about his demise and to depart their e-mail deal with. The following day, messages from his neighborhood poured in.
‘Emotional coronary heart of the guild’
Kai Simon Fredriksen, who can be primarily based in Oslo, met Mats in World of Warcraft via their neighborhood – the Starlight Guild. Guilds are player-organized teams that present a social construction for WoW players. Inside these teams, they’ll chat with one another, workforce up on quests and missions, and share experiences.
Fredriksen calls them “the emotional coronary heart of the guild.” For him, it’s these connections that make World of Warcraft – a franchise that spans 20 years – so partaking. He’s tried different MMOs, however he retains coming again to this sport. “It’s the folks, the neighborhood,” he says.
WoW is a social place the place you’ve got room to inform tales – notably vital for position gamers like him. Quickly after he joined, Fredriksen, whose character is a con artist, grew to become the chief of the Starlight Guild. At its most lively, there have been 40 to 50 gamers within the group.
“Should you discover your tribe, you discover individuals who benefit from the type of gaming expertise and neighborhood you do,” he says. “You have got a help community and other people to point out you new issues.”
Mats, via his Ibelin character, discovered Starlight via the guild’s occasions all through the sport. Fredriksen says their group had an excellent popularity and have been seen as one of many extra severe and established role-playing guilds, so gamers utilized to affix them. As soon as he turned 16, Mats submitted his utility.
The rigorous utility course of included two interviews, each in character and out of character, vetted by a number of Starlight members. Mats gave the impression to be an excellent match for Starlight, somebody Fredriksen might think about on adventures, who could be dependable, enjoyable and fascinating.
What particularly stood out to Fredriksen about Mats have been his questions. He persistently took the time to hear. When he requested a fellow gamer why she was upset, for instance, and discovered that she was struggling to attach together with her teenage son, he provided recommendations.
These conversations come to life within the movie, which used unique animation, dozens of videocassettes from the Steens documenting Mats’ life and hundreds of hours of logged chats from Starlight to recreate poignant moments Mats skilled within the sport.
A life ends, a legacy begins
Fredriksen didn’t learn about his buddy’s situation till practically the top of Mats’ life. After Mats handed away, the guild collected cash so members might attend his funeral.
Yearly on the anniversary of his demise, members of the guild be a part of different WoW gamers to run the identical route within the sport that Mats’ character Ibelin commonly ran when he logged on. This yr’s run was essentially the most attended ever, due to the eye generated by the Netflix documentary. In non-public earlier that day, the guild honors him at a memorial service that his dad and mom attend as their shared dwarf avatar, whose identify is Stoen2 (Ibelin’s finest buddy in WoW was a dwarf known as Stoen).
“[The Steens] have come to know gaming so a lot better, and so they wish to discuss to different dad and mom about this,” Fredriksen says. “It’s a really private and painful story. Nevertheless it’s additionally common within the expertise of being in a neighborhood, of getting folks interact with you and construct relationships.”
Sharing a brand new understanding of gaming with different dad and mom
After Mats died, the Steens discovered solace in a brand new understanding of their son’s vibrant interior life. That he had saved it non-public ignited a hearth in them: to assist different dad and mom understand the advantages of gaming and the way it fosters connections amongst gamers.
“We’ve been asking ourselves the query, ‘Why did we not see this whereas he was alive?’ As a result of we lived below the identical roof for all his life, we noticed one another daily and nonetheless there have been so many issues we didn’t see. We don’t learn about them as a result of a very powerful issues of our lives occur inside our heads,” says Robert.
“We solely tried to take a seat beside him and watch the display screen with out understanding what was occurring. So, after half an hour or so, we acquired bored. We left for the true display screen, which is named tv in Norway. Soccer was on the tv, and I perceive soccer.”
Gaming is the largest leisure exercise in Norway – greater than 85% of all teenagers sport commonly. The Steens have develop into extra knowledgeable concerning the nationwide pastime and are keen about discussing it with different dad and mom.
“If we as dad and mom ought to have any probability of being guiding and supporting forces, we have to perceive what’s going on on this digital world,” Robert says. “You shouldn’t take over their world, however you need to present respect and curiosity.”
Hawken Miller is grateful to the Steens for passing on their classes to his dad and mom. Like Mats, he has Duchenne and is a longtime gamer. He’ll flip 28 on the final day of the World of Warcraft charity marketing campaign.
He was about 6 years previous when his dad and mom gave him a Sport Boy, and he ultimately constructed his personal PC gaming rig as a result of it was simpler to play with a keyboard and mouse. As a journalist, he coated esports, creating weapon loadout guides for The Washington Put up and sport critiques.
“I’m glad that this documentary might help my mother and plenty of different dad and mom perceive that there’s extra to what meets the attention,” says Hawken. “You’re making an attempt to be somebody you aren’t in actual life, and it’s particularly highly effective if somebody has a incapacity and so they can’t do all these issues. It’s the closest factor that they may come to doing it in actual life, in order that positively resonated with me.”
He says that simply being in a sport with others commonly gives the socializing that folks crave of their busy lives.
“If you already know it’s 6:30 p.m., on a weekday and a few of the guys are going to be on, simply to have that place to hang around and play with them, is constructing a connection, even if you happen to aren’t speaking about your lives,” he says.
Hawken’s mom, Debra Miller, who based CureDuchenne greater than 20 years in the past after Hawken was recognized, says she was a “typical mother” who gave her son a tough time about spending an excessive amount of time on video video games, particularly after he graduated from USC in 2019 and moved again dwelling. That was an prolonged keep when the pandemic lockdowns occurred. It took reading about Mats and assembly the Steens to vary her viewpoint on gaming.
“After we got here again, there was one evening that my husband and I have been watching TV, and we might hear Hawken enjoying a sport on-line and he was laughing, trash speaking and simply having a good time. It gave me an entire totally different perspective on what he’s doing,” she says. “Beforehand, I thought-about his time on video video games to be completely leisure and on the expense of both faculty or work or true relationships, however I’m now in a position to higher perceive the relationship-building throughout the sport.”
Each technology is luckier than the earlier technology
Debra, Hawken’s mother, is hopeful that new remedies on the horizon will enable her son and others with Duchenne to stay longer, a direct results of the work her group has funded over the previous twenty years.
“Each technology is luckier than the earlier technology,” she says of the developments in remedy.
She had by no means heard of Duchenne — a uncommon genetic situation that causes progressive muscle harm and weak spot — earlier than Hawken’s prognosis. She labored in promoting gross sales and expertise earlier than founding CureDuchenne.
The nonprofit group helps fund early-stage biotech corporations that develop promising, novel science for treating Duchenne and has invested greater than $26 million in analysis since its creation greater than 20 years in the past. These investments have paved the way in which for enterprise capital corporations and pharmaceutical corporations to speculate an extra $3.65 billion immediately into these biotech corporations, additional advancing their packages.
CureDuchenne has additionally created assets and help workshops across the nation for households with Duchenne, together with an annual nationwide convention that includes a gaming lounge the place children from across the nation can play video video games collectively.
‘Video games can change lives’
Whereas Blizzard, the studio behind WoW, had reached out to the Steens after studying about Mats in 2019, they have been unaware of the movie till it had already been within the works for 3 years. As soon as they screened the almost-finished model, they granted their full help to make use of their mental property within the animation.
“There are moments on this enterprise the place you acknowledge that we make leisure, however typically it’s greater than that,” says Holly Longdale, a 20-year-plus veteran within the gaming trade and government producer of World of Warcraft. “We actually see the influence on somebody’s life, how video games can change lives. These are the recollections in a profession that basically matter.”
Mats’ memorial has drawn not simply those that knew him, however others who wish to keep in mind somebody they misplaced, says Longdale, whose profession has centered primarily on MMOs. She isn’t shocked that bonds are so significant and longstanding inside WoW. She’s recognized gamers who’ve met in-game, gotten married, had kids and now play with their kids in-game.
Individuals begin connecting with one another primarily based on how they play, in order that they discover one another on this planet, she says. Mats and his guild discovered one another, partially, as a result of they recognized as like-minded position gamers.
“The sweetness and relatability of World of Warcraft as a world is definitely epic. And it may be darkish, preventing monsters and stuff,” Longdale says.
“However the world itself is filled with whimsy, humor, love and life. And it’s a place you’ll be able to simply hand around in. For instance, within the cities, there’s at all times folks milling about and other people dancing on mailboxes. Even if you happen to’re simply on by your self, you by no means really feel alone.”
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Lead photograph: Mats Steen, as seen in “The Exceptional Lifetime of Ibelin.” (Picture courtesy of Robert and Trude Steen/Netflix Studios)
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